Can people please answer?!? I just asked this question and one person answered, haha. I really need help!?

So, my boyfriend and I have only been dating for 2 weeks (he is 16 and I am almost 15). Today, we watched the Super Bowl together with his mom and older sister(also my best friend). The entire time we were cuddling on the couch and teasing each other. Then my dad called at ten saying he would be there in thirty seconds. I pull my hoodie over my t-shirt, put on my shoes, say thank you to his mom for letting me come. As I walk towards the door, my boyfriend says good bye and pulls me into his arms. At first I thought it was just a hug, but soon I realized that we were kissing.





Now comes the confusing part: I have never kissed anyone before. And I must say, it came as a surprise. However, I'm not sure if he was trying to make out with me or is just a forceful kisser.





I need some tips. I have never done this before and I don't know what to do. Argh, this is a dumb question, but the person I usually ask these questions is his older sister. No way am I putting her through this. Thanks.

Can people please answer?!? I just asked this question and one person answered, haha. I really need help!?
um...his mom and sister were there? he was just giving you a kiss...and apparently he isn't that experienced either, thus making you think he was a forceful kisser? a kiss now and then is fine...if his sister witnessed it, i would ask her though...ask her what she thought about it...feel her out to see if it bothered her...you don't want to ruin your friendship becuase of him...
Reply:He was finally 'making his move'. The question is this: were you wanting it, or was he overstepping your boundaries? Speak up and voice your opnions and desires with him. Being a kid is a pain in the *** enough without being emotionally confused.





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Reply:i think it's a date but i would say more or less the talking phase...
Reply:The best way to learn how to kiss properly is to practice!
Reply:You should just ask some of your girlfriends how to handle the situation without giving any names. If your dad was on the way and his mom was there I would just say it was a strong kiss and nothing more. At your ages you are just starting to kiss and fondle and just take it slow until you both know what you are doing.
Reply:Ok. Lots of people get scared when they don't have experience at kissing as if its like test of playing the violin when you've had no lessons.





When I was a teenager I recall being insecure about it. Theres no need to be.





Communication is one thing if you're really nervous. If you really like each other you should be able to talk it through, and also if you really like each other you should not worry about each other fumbling through it.





It sounds like the reason he "forceful" kissed you is because he is inexperienced as well. So he probably has the same insecurity.





Enjoy this period of new things. remember it is supposed to be pleasurable for you as well, so kiss him in a way that feels good to you.





Its hard for us to give you specific advice because everyone has a different style.





He is going to try again. You are the girl. You have control. Just go for it. So what if you fumble at first. Maybe put a hand or both around his neck and stroke his ears. Kiss his bottom lip then kiss his top lip. Try a little bit side on. He may try and go for some "tongue", you should only allow it if it feels right with you. You are in charge as the girl as I said.





Look you are underage so be careful about sex. Its illegal until whatever the legal age is there. He can get put in jail remember until you are the legal age.





But good luck and enjoy your journey
Reply:I think it wasn't a make out kiss. Just a hey, Goodbye kiss.





Everybody pretty much kisses differently. It's pretty hard to describre it. Just don't be sloppy and don't make it look like your trying to eat his face.





Slow but yet passionate always does the trick.
Reply:I heard trace the alphabet with your tounge good luck!!=]
Reply:just do what you believe is right just go with the flow he was most likely making out with you!
Reply:For not doing this before comes the confusion. Don't worry about it. It could be tha the is just a strong kisser, %26amp; that seems to be the case since mom %26amp; sister were there, so I would relax. If that kiss didn't appeal to you the way you would have liked, then tell him that the next kiss should be softer, just because you want to take the time to enjoy it. I am sure that the next time he kisses you, it will be much nicer, %26amp; softer. Be sure to tell him though what you feel you are ready for. Like say if you think you are ready to kiss lightly tell him light soft sweet kisses, but not for tounge wrestling.
Reply:Ask his sister. Honestly. She will help ya out.
Reply:That would be surprising!


If you really like each other, things will come naturally. You don't need practice, or "lessons." : )


Just don't do anything your uncomfortable with. If you don't want him to kiss you in front of his mother, than tell him that.


Focus on letting your relationship grow in other ways, and the kissing will always be wonderful.
Reply::-) Just keep practicing sweetheart. Have fun with it and you will be just fine!!!
Reply:Forceful kisser? Sounds like he needs to gain some skills himself. Which is good for you because you can work at it TOGETHER. Best Wishes.
Reply:Okay this is a lot easier to do then you might think. First off, if he kissed you then that obviously means he's probably extremly attacted to you; this means that no matter how you make out with him he's going to like it. Even if you screw up. The biggest tip I can give you is to make sure you tilt your head to one side so your noses don't bump. If he goes to the same side as you don't switch sides, let him do it; or else you both might do it and it would be wierd. Other than that just move your lips a lot and stick your tounge out (inside his mouth). If you want him to feel you up then grab him closer and tightly and maybe feel him up. But beware if you to are going at eachothers lips most guys will just feel you up cause you gave them the green light. Tell him he's a good kisser and let him know you like when he kisses you and he will do it all the time. Obviously he doesn't mind doing it so you don't ever have to initiate the kissing. Be confident and have fun!


P.S. please answer my question: "Why is she talking to me a lot after she said "no" to me?"


Thanks so much, and believe me everything will go well when you make out with your boy friend. Be confident, and follow my tips!
Reply:well sounds like your in your first relationship, just do what feels good, experiment and have fun. but be safe...enjoy!
Reply:It was probably just a sweet goodnight kiss, meaning he had a good time with you. If it was forceful at all and you weren't comfortable with it, you need to tell him to stop, especially if you think he is moving too fast. Hanging out with his family means he must be comfortable with you, and hopefully his intentions were good. Make sure you know your personal boundaries. He sounds like a nice guy!
Reply:Lucky you. I be jealous. Um... be careful if you or he has braces.
Reply:He probably did it that way because he wanted to just get to kissing you, Now all you have to do is practice.
Reply:You are so cute! It is getting hard to find a 15 year old that hasn't kiss someone this days so BE PROUD OF YOURSELF!


About your question.... some boys will ask the girl if they can kiss her first, especially if they know she hasn't kiss anyone before and other boys like your boyfriend make the decision themselves and wait to see what happens and that is when you need to be smart about it.


You need to analyze YOUR FEELINGS about this whole thing and do what you are comfortable doing and if he is a good boy he will respect your wishes, My friends teenage daughter was like you and when her boyfriend tried to kiss her she told him flat out she wasn't ready to be kissing anyone jet and HE RESPECTED THAT! so don't be afraid to say what you think is better for you.


Keep this as a nice learning experience you are only 15 and you will meet a lot of different guys so don't do things that you don't feel comfortable, guys really like good girls like you so keep it that way!!! sound like you are in the right track, being in company of adults, your Dad picking you up at 10...AWESOME, that is how we help our kids from getting in trouble, I think that is so cool.Good luck friend.
Reply:He's your boyfriend %26amp; thats where you should learn to kiss. Dont worry, you'll get better with a little practice. Congrats on having a loving boyfriend. Be safe %26amp; good luck.
Reply:Maybe you should just ask him. Its imposible to give someone a tip on how to kiss over the internet and for 1 I don't kiss girls and 2 I don't kiss children (not like that anyway).
Reply:dont matter go for it kiss back move your tounge in his mouth...



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