What happened here?

I took a girl out on a date, since we met online, I figured it be good to break the ice by going glow bowling. I wanted to show her I knew how to have fun and let her be herself. Then we had coffee after, and I noticed that when I met her, I went to hug her and she was kind of nervous, like cold fish.





Then during the date she started to open up more and smile and laugh alot, and asked me lots of things about myself and held up the convo well. She also played with her shoe alot around me.





When I left I told her I had fun with her tonight, and she said "I think I had fun with you too"....like she was in a daze, then she left and when I asked about hanging out again she said she would, I knew she was going away for a week, so I told her to call me when she gets back.





Then she said "It was nice to meet you", then I extended my arms out and she hugged me a little.





What happened? Im not banking on anything, im just curious if I did anything wrong.

What happened here?
i think it went well, she was probably shocked at how you were a gentlemen seeing how there arent many left, i would ask her again if you really enjoyed her company
Reply:hmm...(sigh)...sounds romantic to me! sounds like the perfect date! Congrats! thats hard to pull off!
Reply:What makes you think you did anything wrong? Has she not called you? From the sound of it, she sounds like a shy, reserved person. Maybe you were expecting too much too soon? Call her for a casual meeting; don't rush this girl, and see how she reacts. If she's non-commital, move on. If she seems interested, then you know you didn't do anything wrong.
Reply:Well, I won't sugar coat anything. I don't think you did anything wrong. However, from what you describe, what happened was she just wasn't that into you, but she was going to be nice and have fun while on a date with you.





You didn't mention anything extra-ordinary. You also said after telling her to call you when she gets back, her response was "It was nice to meet you". instead of, "alright, sure I'll give you a call."





Do you see what I mean? I'm glad you're not expecting anything to happen, because it doesn't sound like she's that into you. Sorry!
Reply:No, I don't think you did anything wrong. This was her first time meeting you, and it can be sort of overwhelming (despite how long you have spoken on the internet). She sounds like she had a good time if she opened up. And, my first reaction is that "I think I had fun with you, too" means that she was somewhat surprised. Do you know all of the horror stories about meeting guys from online? Her friends probably made her nervous and almost dreading to meet you. From what you said, you didn't do anything wrong. At this point, if she calls- she calls. If you want some reassurance, and this happened recently while she's still on her trip, write her an email to see when she gets back saying that you really enjoyed the date and were happy you met her. Don't go on too long to seem desperate, just as if you thought about the date and smiled, deciding to thank her for seeing you. Keep it short. Maybe that will fend off some nervousness on her part when she gets home and make her more likely to call you. Like you, she is dissecting the date too and trying to figure out what you thought of her.
Reply:you did good :)
Reply:nope nothing wrong sounds like a great first date,I have meet 2 wonder full men on the net,the first one didn't last but the new guy is looking interestingly good....you gotta remember that Internet dating is kinda hard...you get a written piece on you and she then responses to that,you go out maybe the connection that you felt she didn't...the shoe thing was a sign of nervouness,maybe this was her first foray into the wonderfull wourld of internet dating...maybe she's not quite over her EX...who knows,just go out there and have fun,you will find who ever you are looking for,it takes time,like the saying goes "you gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find your princess"don't give up...it sounded like a great date....
Reply:u didn't do anything wrong, sounded like a good fun date, the girl is probably just shy
Reply:Nope, sounds OK--but never just reach out to hug--now you know it made her nervous--some people are shy but warm up in time--a hug may be nice --but only after a while--just approach this girl slowly--you already got the hint loud and clear---the fun of dating is the discovery process--so take it easy, relax, have fun---keep it light---let her set the pace for a while--respect is always the biggest factor--do not disrespect her or her space. Now don't give it another thought--just plan on another fun date---a museum or shopping or anything nice and easy. if it doesn't work out--move on and start all over---millions do it all the time---just smile and be a nice guy. good luck
Reply:Well, I would say that she definately was kind of stand-offish. I would say if she doesn't call you within a week after she gets home, then she just didn't feel like you two clicked. I wouldn't say you did anything wrong.
Reply:no but dont go too fast
Reply:It sounds like maybe you two would be better off as friends.
Reply:You're cool man what were you expecting to happen? It sounds like that she had a good time and she seems to be interested in you as well by what you have described. Just take your time and don't rush things too fast. It sounds like she may be a little shy also and if that't the case you really have to take your time you don;t want to come on too strong because she may think that you're crazy or something. Besides she was probably just trying to figure you out since you said you guys met online. Maybe you're the first person that she has met online that she actually has gone out with. Everything sounds pretty good to me. Good luck
Reply:nothing is wrong it wuz your first date. she mite just be a little nervous and shy. Wait after a week and see what happens.
Reply:You didn't do anything wrong at all, maybe she's just shy or doesn't want to call you right away because she might think that she will sound kind of desperate or that she has noyhing else to do, how long has it been since you haven't spoke with her?


Good Luck!!!
Reply:doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. maybe she was just shy. sounds like you had a nice time though. good luck with it!
Reply:Sorry to break you the news but it is simple. She had a good time but as it seems she doesnt want to hang out with you anymore. Just cope with it.
Reply:Good luck, doesn't sound like a bad date



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