My brother is back with his horrible ex-girlfriend...?

they have dated off and on for a long time. the most recent break up she started stalking me (calling and texting all the time) saying how "i ruined my brother. we are both horrible discusting alcoholics. i am a loser. shes hope i die in a car accident" just really ****** up stuff.





this weekend my bro and i were bowling w/ some of our mutual friends and she showed up towards the end of our game. i have an inkling that him and her were texting back and forth during the day. i was SO LIVID! i kicked off my shoes, grabbed my **** and left w/out one word being said.





my brother has said to me many times that they will not get back together because family means more to him than some girl...if this is true why would they be speaking again, and possibly hooking up. i am just so hurt! any suggestions on how to handle this situation??? i have been ignoring my bro since...

My brother is back with his horrible ex-girlfriend...?
...no offense hun.....sorry Kat!!!...but anxiety can be a really horrible thing too ....so don't anxiety over your own brother's misfortunate personal behavior here otherwise......he's a big boy now darling....so let him stumble and fall and pick his own stuff up by himself reasonably. How else is he ever gonna acquire the ability to take care of himself reasonably? I'm certain he'll call you directly if he requires your input darling....otherwise he's not ASKING for it......are we COOL on this stuff sweetie?
Reply:...I have four sisters hun...two of them I am a triplet with amusingly. Believe me when I say what I do babe....I've been there many times....and I'm certain that there will be a few more.


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Reply:You and your family need to quit trying to control your brother. You can't save him from himself. He needs to make his own mistakes. Just be there to help him when and if he needs you.
Reply:Look sis, I love her and there's nothing I can do to change my feelings. Plus she's got a great rack. You shouldn't be spreading family business for everyone to see. Just let us be and I'll leave you alone.
Reply:How long ago was the most recent break-up? It sounds by quote: "saying how i ruined my brother" that maybe durring the beakup your brother tossed your name into it. If that is the case then you need to talk to your brother. Maybe he tossed your name into it and made the breakup seem to be your fault. If not, then maybe she thought you were the reason behind it and lashed out at you instead of your brother. Maybe you could talk to your brother and tell him how you feel and if he is gonna be back with her, possible talk things out with her. She didn't start anything when she showed up a bowling so maybe she has grown up. If she is what makes your brother happy then the two of you are gonna have to put aside your differences.
Reply:I can feel your pain and anger, but, in all reality eyes, their is absolutely nothing we can do to rescue our brothers when they don't know whether they want to be rescued or not. Sisters are very protective of our brothers, mainly because we are women and one woman knows the mind of another woman, even though this girl may not be suitable or healthy for your brother,but, she is the one your brother chose to be connected to in his life, it also puts pressure on the brothers because they r caught in the midle of trying to please self and family, NO MATTER WHAT, that is your brother and I would not allow another woman to keep me from loving and being around my brother, he was my brother long before he was ever her man. My sister-in-law tried to drive a wedge between my brother and me due to her insecurities, but, I stood up inside myself and said to myself, "no one is going to rob me of the love for my brother." It would help to do some silent praying for your brother and try to be there for him when he needs you the most. Good luck to u sister, I understand what u r going thru.
Reply:thats messed up sadly i've been threw wrose ask yourself what can i do u should move on
Reply:What ever you do ~ don't ignore your brother. Let him work it out between the ex and him... and be thankful you are not in my situation ... my bro married a girl that I can not stand.. but I am there for him and his daughter... and as civil as I can be to her... I was hoping it would never happen BUT... it did we still talk and he knows my feelings toward her... Just don't brake ties between you and your brother... if you LOVE him let him work it out and if he says he won't ever go back with her TRUST him....
Reply:why are you so controlling?


let him screw up his own life


and remember, you have a choice of whether or not to open a text/answer the phone, etc......
Reply:just kick her ***, you know?
Reply:just because he is your brother doesn't mean he thinks the same as you. you can pick your friends but you can't pick your family. either you can put up with his ex even though you don't agree with it, or stay mad at him. it's up to you.



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